"we should wipe them out" said my good friend r, his eyes red, his frame trembling with rage. it was 9.30 am on thursday and he stopped by to ask if i heard about the carnage in kebithigollewa. r is a mild guy, head of a very profitable series of businesses and does a lot of charity work. he looks after a family close to the site of the doomed bus. " this is nonsense. why should we talk peace when at every turn they kill and murder? the buggers are living peacefully among us and then they kill our women and kids? "
"we should wipe them out" he said again.
"don't you think" i say as gently as i can after some more minutes of r's rage, " that your reaction is part of what the bomb was aimed at?"
a little later i called b in trinco and the phone spat and crackled. "yeah, it's bad but how do you know it's the ltte? where were you when that family was massacred in mannar? or those kids were murdered in jaffna? or those youth were abducted in batticola? or that village was bombed in sampur? are we forgotten?".
"but you had a chance to vote for peace and did otherwise" i said.
"what vote, machan." he was shouting, " these buggers don't know us. how can they represent us?"
somewhere in sri lanka there is a lad playing cricket on a dusty paddy field who dreams of a time when his father will return home from the battlefield. this lad is the captain of his team and he has a thing about unraveling knots.